That's how I see it
This is my personality. This is who I am. Personality, although within certain narrow limits, can be shaped, but not changed. Therefore, let us choose each other based on our thinking (which is our essence) and accept ourselves for who we are, without lies, without subterfuge: perhaps we will not be happy according to our concept of happiness (if we even have one), but we will be at peace. And serenity is that less showy but very solid kind of happiness.
SHE
HIM